Serious Relationships.

Relationship is the age for illusion, when you want to gave all your love to preserve the person you want. Is a relationship necessary in young people?, with a relationship you are able to discover the existence of ideas, hope and feelings to share with your couple and even the parents, friends or siblings can’t share or be in those kind of feeling.

First, in a relationship love has to be a really serious thing and don’t play being in love because that damage the soul and the body. The relationship become in something coarse, common is like gave to everyone kisses with no feelings, cheating your self thinking that is just for fun, that situation can be hurtful.

When you are in a good relationship you desire the best thing to your couple, and enjoy with his success, and cry with his sadness, being in his say in the rocky roads of your relationship, to say words of support and gave him your sold without conditions.

Second, we need to realize that after being boyfriends have to be excellent friends, and in a constructive relationship exist the good trait main, respect, and care for each odder that’s were we don’t idealized our couple.

Sometimes when you are crazy in love with a person you don’t’ know well, you look at it, and see your man of your dreams, but all that is create by your mind, you gave him qualities that he doesn’t have, and it’s so far to have it.

Three, You need to know that the relationships either based in just physic attraction that’s when you are with a person just for how he looks, the only thing you do is kissing him and a have a great sex. Then both or one of them get tired, and this happens every time you want to begin a relationship. You have fall down in solitude loneliness this is when you begin and end a lot of relationships, now you don’t know the meaning of a serious relationship.

Finally I want that every young couple know that from three marriages two get divorce. For this you have to make a stop and think deeply in your relationship, a bad marriage is a consequent of a bad relationship.
The beginning of a relationship is the key of happiness and the disgrace of the 80% of our useful life.

A lot of young people think that is very difficulty to have a serious relationship because at this age we are trying new things, for this we sometimes think that is not necessary been with a person a long period of time, “we are young so we have the power to do anything”. That is an egocentric phrase that we often use, with this the only thing we get is make more mistakes and hurt people that cares about us.

In conclusion is not true that in some place is living your true love this thoughts is just poetry, useless romanticism. Love doesn’t create for himself; you have to work very hart to construct it. And the only way to do it is if we learn to respect and don’t fall in the mistakes of the bad relationships when we are younger.